On this episode of Sweet Tea Ethics, we honor the moving legacy of D’Angelo and explore the transformative rituals that help us move through grief. Host Dr. Ed Garnes is joined by the insightful Rev. Mashaun D. Simon, whose personal journey with faith, grief, and community sheds light on how we can find healing even in the hardest seasons.
Key Topics Covered:
Ritual’s Role in Grief: As Dr. Garnes reflects, ritual—from preparing altars with favorites like “Chicken Grease” and “Brown Sugar,” to honoring D’Angelo’s sonic inheritance—anchors our mourning and reminds us of our African spiritual home.
Project Joshua & Inclusive Grief Care: Rev. Simon discusses the founding of Project Joshua, a wellness initiative prioritizing grief and healing for the Black LGBTQIA+ community, and why true safe space isn’t always found within church walls.
Faith, Mental Health & the Black Church: The conversation dives into the intersections of grief, faith, and mental health, dismantling the stigma of seeking help and recognizing that grief is about more than death—it’s about all forms of loss and transformation.
Challenging Tradition for Authentic Healing: Rev. Simon challenges us to expand, not destroy, tradition—encouraging critical reflection: “Don’t create a safe space where one should have already existed.”
Healing Playlists and Personal Rituals: Music is a theme throughout, from D’Angelo’s influence to healing playlists that include Beyoncé’s “Daddy Lessons,” the Hamilton soundtrack, and timeless gospel.
Takeaway:
Both Dr. Garnes and Rev. Simon share vulnerably about loss—from the passing of a parent to church “othering.” Their stories reveal the depth and complexity of Black grief, while offering listeners real tools for healing: authentic spirituality, community, and cultural ritual.
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